Lables

I can honestly say I am new to the terminologies but not new to the concept. I prefer to be submissive because I like to please. I like making my Sir happy, I also like being a brat. I have two lives I guess. My everyday consists of me telling people how to care for themselves. My private life I let go completely. These terminologies of Sub/Dom are not new yet the intricacies are. I want nothing more than to please my Sir and hear him say,"Good Girl".  Truth be told, I want to hear much more than that😈 Ive heard many definitions on what a submissive entails, not too sure I qualify, not sure if it matters. There are too many labels and boxes to check off like a honey do list. If we had to check boxes I'd be a black female opportunist medical bodyworker contortionist herbal acupuncturist bottom switch shibari geek gypsy pot smoker. That's just my intro.

Being a person is hard enough without all the lables. If I had it my way I'd just be human but we have to identify each other with qualifiers so that we can again seperate one another from our kin. That's just what I think off handed. Being a proud bottom to shibari/kinbaku I could wear as a badge of honor but I don't advertise. The pleasures and spoils go to me and Sir not as broadcast even though I am proud. The labels are identifiers and qualifiers are so that people may know how to approach you. I like not advertising and keep people guessing. What labels are you?